Topic: Can love be kept alive and hot forever?

[londonbabe]

With all these relationship issues people keep throwing around, one gets the impression that after a few years, and with the average couple getting used to each other’s bodies, romance could fly out of the window. Yet there are couples who’ve sustained the love in their relationships for decades. How do they do it? I’m not married yet, but when I do, I pray that it would last the distance. What do you guys think?

[hot_stepper]

@poster

thats exactly what I want in my married life ooooo. And I am willing to wait till I see the right man I can love forever. Better to take time than to get fed up in a few years.

Just my 2cents

[polys]

Keeping love alive is very simple. Just cook his favorite dish for him everyday and it shall be well with you. In my case, na pounded yam and egusi, with bush meat.

[Dinma]

Too many times i think we get into relationships without counting the costs. I think we just expect things to flow.... unfortunately over time we realise relationships like everything else is a lot of hard work which we did not bargain for initially. Question is are we willing to put in the effort?

@Polys- it cant just be food. If i cooked you your best meal everyday and didnt talk to you, how long do you think we would last? Funny thing is you would get tired of your pounded yam soon enough

Yes, i think love can be kept alive- am working on keeping mine alive. Some days its tough you know, we wake up and dont want to be in love but most days thats what puts a smile on your face as you wake up . Some of the things i'd recommend to keep your love alive n hot are: make a right start (someone you can actually see as the one you spend the rest of your life with)this is fundamental in accessing how long the relationship will last and what it can stand. Be sure that both of you agree on the same things too for how shall two walk together (in keeping the love alive) if they do not agree?; Talk- as easy as this may sound (cos its what we seem to do everyday) it is the toughest thing to do. When two people talk they get into each other- you increase understanding, you increase trust, you know the person more, you see their strengths (and build on it) and see their weakness (and work on it);Be Creative- we all get tired of the same food or shoes after a while, relationships get tired of the same routine too. "Good morning dear, food is on the table, i'd see you in the evening" Hello... add some spice to your relationships, arrange to meet for lunch at some nice restaurant, change your perfume, wear a different hair-do, take time to find a nice vacation spot. There's so much you can come up with!

Am going to pause cos am reading a book i'd share with you guys later. Wishing you all a beautiful week with your loved ones

[DeahT]

In succinct, it is being CREATIVE, better still being DYNAMIC as the moment goes by in your relationship. Employ hilarious creativity to manipulate all misunderstandings that will ensue from time to time. Look up latest in the fashion world but be moderate with ur choices. Create an atmosphere whereby if u're off even for a second it seems a year to him/her! Make it totally impossible for him/her to live a second without u. Above all, only incessant secret prayer moments will make it last forever. Personally, I plan to b PRAYERFUL and CREATIVE! 19:02 PM 6/15/20109:02 PM 6/15/20100x

[DeahT]

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[Monkap]

With all these relationship issues people keep throwing around, one gets the impression that after a few years, and with the average couple getting used to each other’s bodies, romance could fly out of the window. Yet there are couples who’ve sustained the love in their relationships for decades. How do they do it? I’m not married yet, but when I do, I pray that it would last the distance. What do you guys think?

[bashali]

yes it can with all the trust, understanding and love

[tossyn]

yeah truly really

[emmadetemy]

Love can be kept hot and alive forever if the both couple understand themselves and there is natural love {not bcos of her straight legs that's why i love her} in this case assume the lady now got accident and her leg got amputated  can that man still love her? so dont see anything special in a person before marriage

[Goke]

The only thing dat can keep luv alive and hot forever is to pray and trust each other

[chinelo]

love can be alive and hot forever if the foundation is on Jesus Christ

[emmadetemy]

Love can be kept alive

[toluking]

Love is a living thing. it is more than a feeling. It can be kept alive and hot forever.

I have been married for 7 years and I love my wife and still do.

Now have I said that marriage is a bed of bliss? No. I married my friend. So when the love is not there, the friendship is there to sustain us.
sometimes i wished i got married earlier.

One of the things that helped us and is still helping us is that we both Love God. God is the center. Before we do anything, we cross check with his word and His word is the foundation for our existence.

A woman wants romance ( romance is not just kissing her, to a woman romance is having time for her, helping her at home) and a man wants respect. Be creative in the way you give each other what he or she wants.

Husbands, Love your wife... Wife submit to your husbands love.

Love never fails.